So a woman I have begun interacting with called me a “very feminine butch.”
Is this a win? A loss? A mix-up? It feels sort of positive, but honestly I have no idea.
I suspect that most butches are way more masculine than me. And honestly, Ellen Degeneres is way more butch than me.
So who am I and how much does it matter” Labels are so misleading, and yet they help us figure ourselves out.