Styling Saturday: To Tie or Not to Tie

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Vivienne Westwood says, “You have a more interesting life when you wear impressive clothes.” Now, Westwood is an old British fashion designer, apparently known for bringing punk clothing into the mainstream, so on the one hand, she would think this. On the other hand…I dunno if it’s true, but it sure feels true.

This also reminds me of the last time I wore a necktie, around 1986 or1987. It was the eighties, so I was not being ironic or gender-bendy in any way. I think I wore jeans and brown Oxford bucks, a light blue button-down Oxford shirt, my jeans jacket and a narrow light blue necktie with pink flowers. My hair was short, just as it is now. I was singing the final song at the top (bottom?) of my lungs, as I always do. Afterwards, the little old lady standing next to me patted me on the arm and said, “It’s so nice to hear young men singing in church!” That was the last time I wore a necktie.

I often get “sirred” at the grocery store. I don’t really care, but it always makes the person who says it get embarrassed in the following moment when they take a closer look at me and focus less on my fedora and more on my earrings, etc. I recently bought three modest neckties at SkinnyTies.com (one black, one navy, and one powder pink), but I don’t think I will probably wear them, or at least not until I learn how to do my makeup better. I don’t think I could pull off true butch, and I don’t think I would want to. But when I look at something like Katherine Moennig or Julie Andrews just looking so darn cute in a tie, I wish I could carry it off.

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8 thoughts on “Styling Saturday: To Tie or Not to Tie

  1. PJS May 16, 2016 / 10:20 pm

    I think you could carry it off!

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  2. PJS May 17, 2016 / 7:53 pm

    Well, as you said, a wee bit more make-up. On the other hand, you don’t wanna be tarted up either.

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    • writerspilecki May 21, 2016 / 3:04 am

      I am longer from hip to shoe than from shoulder to hip. It’s a problem. I am considering a Ravenclaw sweater-and-tie Halloween ensemble…. Thoughts?

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  3. PJS May 21, 2016 / 11:06 pm

    I like the fact that you’re thinking about Halloween in May. It’s never too early.

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    • writerspilecki May 22, 2016 / 6:28 am

      And that idea is for work, rather than the evening pub crawl…

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